Dear Zindagi will resonate
with the name Alia Bhat. She is the centre of the film and how? All of 23 Alia
gives a pleasant yet gripping performance which flows through like the ripples
created when you throw a stone in the pond. The ripples spread throughout the
water body creating a beautiful visual effect of concentric circles that
soothes your senses. We all feel incomplete in our relationships with parents
which eventually have an impact on other relationships. The parent child
relationship is the core of all our relationships and the rest of our
relationships through our life are dependent on how strong, weak, fulfilled or
unfulfilled our relationship was with our parents.
Gauri narrates this story of any
ordinary person in an extraordinary way through Kiara’s life. She relates the relationships
of Kiara (Alia) with her parents and the aftermath of the incidents in her
childhood. How the need for love and unfulfilled emotions of a small child show
up in her connections with other human beings after growing up. How all of us
carry heavy baggage of the mistakes our parents made into most of our adult
life and how by letting it go we can create new dimensions in all of our
relationships. It reminds me of a phenomenal program I participated in, which
transformed my life. The program made me feel light though I weigh over 80 kgs.
I won’t elaborate more for it is a different topic.
Coming back to the film, the
simple dialogues, casual acting of the youth in the film and the story line
give a sense of comfort and can be related to easily. Shah Rukh overacts again
or maybe it’s just his style. He holds back a bit too much as he delivers
philosophical gyan which are highly intonated and pronounced in British accent.
Am sure at least a few of those wise quotes are his own creations. The film
tends to get boring but the strength of the story and scene sequences pull you through
the life of Koko. A good watch if you don’t mind a laid back and casual
experience. But if you are looking for drama and action then you should think
again.
Rating – 3 /5